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10 Things to Remember When Wedding Planning
One of the biggest things that you can ever plan in your life is your wedding day. It’s important to note that weddings are usually for the guests rather than for the wedded couple, and that’s because of the experience that the couple wants to throw for their family and friends. It’s a day to remember, which means that it usually comes with a lot of planning.
It’s likely that you have already started thinking about what you want for the big day itself, but you have to think about how you want your wedding to go. Let’s take a look at 10 things that you have to remember about wedding planning.
Get some insurance (really!)
There is nothing nice about imagining the ‘what if’ of a wedding going wrong, but to be prepared is smart! When you’re making your lists and planning what you’d like for your venue and your food, you need to think about the wedding insurance you need. While disaster is not likely to strike your relationship while you plan your wedding, you still need to plan for the other disasters. If a natural disaster happens and your venue is out of commission, you’ll also be out of pocket. That doesn't have to happen if you have wedding insurance!
Make sure that you put a realistic budget together
Setting your wedding budget is important. You want to be able to plan for what you can afford and that means laying out your budget so that you don't get into debt for the wedding. Create something that works for you both as a couple so that you can avoid debt entirely. When you plan out a realistic budget, you can stick to it as much as possible and know where you are willing to splurge or save.
Research vendors
You shouldn't ever book any vendors until you are sure that you know what you want. Vendors will be the backbone of your wedding day and that means you have to do your due diligence to choose the right ones. Don't be afraid to look up references and ask for feedback, and go to social media to see what the opinions are of previous customers. You need to make sure that your wedding day is a smooth one without any stress, so trust your instincts and go with vendors who make you feel excited about your day.
Don't forget about the guests
It’s super easy to get yourself stuck into the fun parts of a wedding but as we said earlier, weddings tend to be about the guest experience. You want your families and friends to have a great time and that means that you need to make sure of it. Consider parking, maps to the venue and the ceremony and the option for discounted accommodation. This is especially important if you’re having a destination wedding.
Maintain organisation
You really do have to be as organised as possible. This is your wedding, and wedding planning can be overwhelming enough. There are a million things to do, but the best way to keep everything in check is to invest in a wedding planner. Whether digital or paper, you'll be able to track your tasks and todo list in one place. You can also create a detailed timeline for the day of the wedding as well and have a schedule set. You don't have to do this alone, however, because you can involve all of your wedding team to help.
Prepare yourself as much as possible.
Everything is supposed to go according to plan for your wedding day but the truth is that sometimes, weddings come with a few surprises. You can't predict everything, but you can prepare. An emergency kit with essentials such as pain relief, deodorant, safety pins, extra makeup, and handy wipes will make sure that you are backed up no matter what happens. The most important thing is that you will be getting married, and as you will be prepared you can roll with the punches and stay calm.
Try not to over complicate the guest list.
It's very easy to get caught up in family politics or feel obligated to invite distant relatives, but no matter who says what in your family, the key here is you and your partner. Just because your mom wants you to invite her distant cousin doesn't mean you have to. Set some wedding guest boundaries, and make sure that people understand that you will be inviting who you want to invite, and nobody else.
Consider your personal wedding style.
Your wedding should be a reflection of you and your partner's personalities. You don't have to follow trends, you don't have to align your style with some magazine spread, and whether you're dreaming of a classic affair or a fun and quirky celebration, the style that you choose has to speak to you. You can make your wedding unique to you as a couple, because that's the whole point of the day. Personal touches that make your day feel special and memorable is the way to go.
Don't forget to take care of yourself.
The stress that comes with wedding planning can make it very easy for you to get caught up. The dress fittings, the vendor meetings, the trying to please everybody and anybody, all of this makes it very easy to forget about your own well being. Taking care of yourself is essential if you want to be a happy bride. Make sure to sleep, eat well, and take breaks when needed. Don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it and make sure that you delegate to your partner, family and friends.
Enjoy the process.
Most people who plan their wedding only plan to do it once, and if that's you, you need to enjoy the process as much as possible. Wedding planning is stressful enough but it should also be fun. Don't let the pressure get to you. At the end of the day, your wedding is about celebrating your love and commitment. Whether everything goes exactly as planned or there's a little hiccup along the way, the important thing is you marry the person that you love in the end.
